International Women's Day 2021
This speech was presented at the City of Vincent Library for International Women's Day 2021 lucia on Unsplash Until about a week ago, this was going to be a very different sort of talk. As women—and I have particularly experienced this as a young woman— we are expected to be many things. Neat, tidy, presentable. Cheerful, friendly. Inoffensive. Quiet. Humble. Little girls should be seen and not heard. Isn’t that the expression? There’s another expression I’ve heard a lot lately too. Boys will be boys. These seemingly harmless platitudes are actually doing real damage, managing our expectations of how people are supposed to behave. They are the reason that women who speak out get labelled as troublemakers, and the reason that no one says anything when someone makes a sexist joke. I’m sure every woman in this room can think of an occasion where they’ve been in a situation where someone has said something either about them, or about another woman, that they’ve found inappropri...