On Writing, Female Friendship, and the Importance of Really Caring About What You Do.
Writing a novel is really hard. There are probably thousands of people attempting to do it as you read this, and I would hazard a guess that many of them won't finish. Of those who do, some will never revise their work, and some will never revise it enough times to get it to the point of being ready to submit to agents and publishers. (Some will self publish but that's a totally different subject.) This is where the real paradox of being a writer comes in. To get your work to this point, you have to be hard-working and second guess nearly every decision that you make. (Or, okay, I guess you don't have to be, but I have always found that a lot of writers experience higher than usual self doubt while they are working.) THEN when it comes time to submit your work, suddenly you have to feel as if you are the greatest writer ever to have put words on a page and you have to convince a handful of industry professionals that this is the case too. ...